[Gradle] Apply Language Settings in the correct Lifecycle Stages

After introduction of KGP Lifecycle stages the application of
Language Settings to Targets and Compilation (from source set level)
wasn't synchronized. Which led to data flow race. Delaying this
application to correct stages solves the data flow race.

^KT-59063

libraries/tools/kotlin-gradle-plugin/src/common/kotlin/org/jetbrains/kotlin/gradle/targets/native/KotlinNativeTargetConfigurator.kt

@@ -241,7 +241,7 @@ open class KotlinNativeTargetConfigurator<T : KotlinNativeTarget> : AbstractKotl
                 project.syncLanguageSettingsToLinkTask(binary)
             }
         }
-        project.runOnceAfterEvaluated("Sync native compilation language settings to compiler options") {
+        project.launchInStage(KotlinPluginLifecycle.Stage.FinaliseCompilations) {
             target.compilations.all { compilation ->
                 compilation.compilerOptions.syncLanguageSettings(compilation.defaultSourceSet.languageSettings)
             }

libraries/tools/kotlin-gradle-plugin/src/common/kotlin/org/jetbrains/kotlin/gradle/tasks/configuration/AbstractKotlinCompileConfig.kt

@@ -48,7 +48,7 @@ internal abstract class AbstractKotlinCompileConfig<TASK : AbstractKotlinCompile
 
     init {
         configureTaskProvider { taskProvider ->
-            project.runOnceAfterEvaluated("apply properties and language settings to ${taskProvider.name}") {
+            project.launchInStage(KotlinPluginLifecycle.Stage.AfterFinaliseCompilations) {
                 taskProvider.configure {
                     // KaptGenerateStubs will receive value from linked KotlinCompile task
                     if (it is KaptGenerateStubsTask) return@configure