Adding possibility to skip params inheritance on daemon jvm options creation, refactoring appropriate api, using it to fix tests

Original commit: b71fec985f

jps/jps-plugin/src/org/jetbrains/kotlin/compilerRunner/KotlinCompilerRunner.kt

@@ -139,7 +139,7 @@ public object KotlinCompilerRunner {
                 val libPath = CompilerRunnerUtil.getLibPath(environment.kotlinPaths, messageCollector)
                 val compilerId = CompilerId.makeCompilerId(File(libPath, "kotlin-compiler.jar"))
                 val daemonOptions = configureDaemonOptions()
-                val daemonJVMOptions = configureDaemonJVMOptions(true)
+                val daemonJVMOptions = configureDaemonJVMOptions(inheritMemoryLimits = true, inheritAdditionalProperties = true)
                 // the property should be set by default for daemon builds to avoid parallel building problems
                 // but it cannot be currently set by default globally, because it seems breaks many tests
                 // TODO: find out how to get rid of the property and make it the default behavior