Report error if Java 9 module "kotlin.stdlib" is not found in the graph

Use "-Xallow-kotlin-package" to suppress this error

 #KT-19176 Fixed

compiler/testData/cli/js/jsExtraHelp.out

@@ -3,7 +3,7 @@ where advanced options include:
   -Xfriend-modules=<path>    Paths to friend modules
   -Xfriend-modules-disabled  Disable internal declaration export
   -Xtyped-arrays             Translate primitive arrays to JS typed arrays
-  -Xallow-kotlin-package     Allow compiling code in package 'kotlin'
+  -Xallow-kotlin-package     Allow compiling code in package 'kotlin' and allow not requiring kotlin.stdlib in module-info
   -Xcoroutines={enable|warn|error}
                              Enable coroutines or report warnings or errors on declarations and use sites of 'suspend' modifier
   -Xintellij-plugin-root=<path> Path to the kotlin-compiler.jar or directory where IntelliJ configuration files can be found

compiler/testData/cli/jvm/extraHelp.out

@@ -23,7 +23,7 @@ where advanced options include:
   -Xskip-runtime-version-check Allow Kotlin runtime libraries of incompatible versions in the classpath
   -Xuse-javac                Use javac for Java source and class files analysis
   -Xuse-old-class-files-reading Use old class files reading implementation (may slow down the build and should be used in case of problems with the new implementation)
-  -Xallow-kotlin-package     Allow compiling code in package 'kotlin'
+  -Xallow-kotlin-package     Allow compiling code in package 'kotlin' and allow not requiring kotlin.stdlib in module-info
   -Xcoroutines={enable|warn|error}
                              Enable coroutines or report warnings or errors on declarations and use sites of 'suspend' modifier
   -Xintellij-plugin-root=<path> Path to the kotlin-compiler.jar or directory where IntelliJ configuration files can be found