JVM IR: output stable ABI binaries by default

#KT-43592 Fixed

compiler/testData/compileKotlinAgainstCustomBinaries/oldJvmAgainstFir/library/a.kt

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+package lib
+
+class Box(val value: String)
+
+inline fun <T> get(block: () -> T): T = block()

compiler/testData/compileKotlinAgainstCustomBinaries/oldJvmAgainstFir/output.txt

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+error: classes compiled by the new Kotlin compiler frontend were found in dependencies. Remove them from the classpath or use '-Xallow-unstable-dependencies' to suppress errors
+compiler/testData/compileKotlinAgainstCustomBinaries/oldJvmAgainstFir/source.kt:4:5: error: class 'lib.AKt' is compiled by the new Kotlin compiler frontend and cannot be loaded by the old compiler
+    get { Box("OK").value }
+    ^
+compiler/testData/compileKotlinAgainstCustomBinaries/oldJvmAgainstFir/source.kt:4:11: error: class 'lib.Box' is compiled by the new Kotlin compiler frontend and cannot be loaded by the old compiler
+    get { Box("OK").value }
+          ^
+COMPILATION_ERROR

compiler/testData/compileKotlinAgainstCustomBinaries/oldJvmAgainstFir/source.kt

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+import lib.*
+
+fun main() {
+    get { Box("OK").value }
+}