Add mode to run kapt with JVM IR, use in tests

Currently JVM IR is not supported in kapt, so almost all tests are
failing, and thus are muted with IGNORE_BACKEND.

 #KT-49682

plugins/kapt3/kapt3-compiler/testData/converter/invalidFieldName.kt

@@ -1,3 +1,5 @@
+// IGNORE_BACKEND: JVM_IR
+
 enum class Color {
     BLACK, `WHI-TE`
 }
@@ -5,5 +7,5 @@ enum class Color {
 @Anno(Color.`WHI-TE`)
 annotation class Anno(val color: Color)
 
-// EXPECTED_ERROR(kotlin:5:1) an enum annotation value must be an enum constant
+// EXPECTED_ERROR(kotlin:7:1) an enum annotation value must be an enum constant
 // EXPECTED_ERROR(other:-1:-1) 'WHI-TE' is an invalid Java enum value name