[TD] Update diagnostics test data due to new test runners

Update includes:
- Changing syntax of `OI/`NI` tags from `<!NI;TAG!>` to `<!TAG{NI}!>`
- Fix some incorrect directives
- Change order of diagnostics in some places
- Remove ignored diagnostics from FIR test data (previously `DIAGNOSTICS` didn't work)
- Update FIR dumps in some places and add `FIR_IDENTICAL` if needed
- Replace all JAVAC_SKIP with SKIP_JAVAC directive

compiler/testData/diagnostics/tests/functionLiterals/destructuringInLambdas/simple.kt

@@ -47,7 +47,7 @@ fun bar() {
         b checkType { _<String>() }
     }
 
-    foo <!NI;TYPE_MISMATCH!>{ <!EXPECTED_PARAMETER_TYPE_MISMATCH!>(a, b): B<!> ->
+    foo <!TYPE_MISMATCH{NI}!>{ <!EXPECTED_PARAMETER_TYPE_MISMATCH!>(a, b): B<!> ->
         a checkType { _<Double>() }
         b checkType { _<Short>() }
     }<!>