[TD] Update diagnostics test data due to new test runners

Update includes:
- Changing syntax of `OI/`NI` tags from `<!NI;TAG!>` to `<!TAG{NI}!>`
- Fix some incorrect directives
- Change order of diagnostics in some places
- Remove ignored diagnostics from FIR test data (previously `DIAGNOSTICS` didn't work)
- Update FIR dumps in some places and add `FIR_IDENTICAL` if needed
- Replace all JAVAC_SKIP with SKIP_JAVAC directive

compiler/testData/diagnostics/tests/controlStructures/lambdasInExclExclAndElvis.fir.kt

@@ -13,4 +13,4 @@ fun test() {
 
     1 ?: { }
     use(1 ?: { })
-}
+}