Add new ways to set Kotlin daemon JVM arguments.

Additionally to inheriting Gradle daemon arguments or configuring via
 Gradle daemon arguments system property, it is also possible now
 to configure arguments either using "kotlin.daemon.jvmargs" property
 or extension DSL.

Extension DSL overrides special gradle property arguments, which
overrides Gradle daemon arguments.

^KT-45747 Fixed

compiler/compiler-runner/src/org/jetbrains/kotlin/compilerRunner/KotlinCompilerRunnerUtils.kt

@@ -47,14 +47,32 @@ object KotlinCompilerRunnerUtils {
         isDebugEnabled: Boolean,
         daemonOptions: DaemonOptions = configureDaemonOptions(),
         additionalJvmParams: Array<String> = arrayOf()
-    ): CompileServiceSession? {
-        val daemonJVMOptions = configureDaemonJVMOptions(
+    ): CompileServiceSession? = newDaemonConnection(
+        compilerId,
+        clientAliveFlagFile,
+        sessionAliveFlagFile,
+        messageCollector,
+        isDebugEnabled,
+        daemonOptions,
+        configureDaemonJVMOptions(
             *additionalJvmParams,
             inheritMemoryLimits = true,
             inheritOtherJvmOptions = false,
             inheritAdditionalProperties = true
         )
+    )
 
+    @Synchronized
+    @JvmStatic
+    fun newDaemonConnection(
+        compilerId: CompilerId,
+        clientAliveFlagFile: File,
+        sessionAliveFlagFile: File,
+        messageCollector: MessageCollector,
+        isDebugEnabled: Boolean,
+        daemonOptions: DaemonOptions = configureDaemonOptions(),
+        daemonJVMOptions: DaemonJVMOptions
+    ): CompileServiceSession? {
         val daemonReportMessages = ArrayList<DaemonReportMessage>()
         val daemonReportingTargets = DaemonReportingTargets(messages = daemonReportMessages)