NI: In subtyping do not intersect arguments for non-covariant types

It partially reverts 7898922066
because it's not obvious that it's a safe operation
for invariant/contravariant types.

Also, there's a necessary fix in prepareReceiverRegardingCaptureTypes
to make types order stable
Otherwise test bareTypesWithStarProjections becomes flaky.

Also, the changes in bareTypesWithStarProjections.kt are also expected
because the type of the expression `coneSymbol` after the second "if" is
FirVariableSymbol<*> & FirPropertySymbol & AbstractFirBasedSymbol<*>
thus we fix D in the call `coneSymbol.phasedFir()` to FirVariableSymbol<*>
because it's the first type in the list
(see the next line after the last changed in AbstractTypeChecker)

compiler/tests-spec/testData/diagnostics/notLinked/dfa/pos/41.kt

@@ -19,7 +19,7 @@ fun case_1(x: Any) {
     if (x is Interface1) {
         if (x is Interface2) {
             <!DEBUG_INFO_EXPRESSION_TYPE("Interface1 & Interface2 & kotlin.Any")!>x<!>
-            <!DEBUG_INFO_EXPRESSION_TYPE("Interface2 & kotlin.Any"), DEBUG_INFO_SMARTCAST!>x<!>.itest()
+            <!DEBUG_INFO_EXPRESSION_TYPE("Interface1 & kotlin.Any"), DEBUG_INFO_SMARTCAST!>x<!>.itest()
             <!DEBUG_INFO_EXPRESSION_TYPE("Interface1 & kotlin.Any"), DEBUG_INFO_SMARTCAST!>x<!>.itest1()
             <!DEBUG_INFO_EXPRESSION_TYPE("Interface2 & kotlin.Any"), DEBUG_INFO_SMARTCAST!>x<!>.itest2()
         }