NI: In subtyping do not intersect arguments for non-covariant types

It partially reverts 7898922066
because it's not obvious that it's a safe operation
for invariant/contravariant types.

Also, there's a necessary fix in prepareReceiverRegardingCaptureTypes
to make types order stable
Otherwise test bareTypesWithStarProjections becomes flaky.

Also, the changes in bareTypesWithStarProjections.kt are also expected
because the type of the expression `coneSymbol` after the second "if" is
FirVariableSymbol<*> & FirPropertySymbol & AbstractFirBasedSymbol<*>
thus we fix D in the call `coneSymbol.phasedFir()` to FirVariableSymbol<*>
because it's the first type in the list
(see the next line after the last changed in AbstractTypeChecker)

compiler/testData/diagnostics/tests/inference/regressions/kt35844.fir.kt

@@ -15,3 +15,13 @@ fun <E> main(a: A<E>) {
 
     foo(a).b()
 }
+
+class AOut<out X>
+
+fun <Y> foo(c: AOut<Y>): Y = TODO()
+
+fun <E> mainOut(a: AOut<E>) {
+    a as AOut<B<*>>
+
+    foo(a).b()
+}

compiler/testData/diagnostics/tests/inference/regressions/kt35844.kt

@@ -15,3 +15,13 @@ fun <E> main(a: A<E>) {
 
     foo(<!DEBUG_INFO_SMARTCAST!>a<!>).b()
 }
+
+class AOut<out X>
+
+fun <Y> foo(c: AOut<Y>): Y = TODO()
+
+fun <E> mainOut(a: AOut<E>) {
+    a <!UNCHECKED_CAST!>as AOut<B<*>><!>
+
+    foo(<!DEBUG_INFO_SMARTCAST!>a<!>).b()
+}

compiler/testData/diagnostics/tests/inference/tooEagerSmartcast.kt

@@ -20,7 +20,7 @@ fun <X> InvBase<X>.myLastInv(): X = TODO()
 
 fun <T> fooInv(x: InvBase<T>) {
     if (x is InvDerived<*>) {
-        val l: T = x.myLastInv() // required T, found Cap(*). Only in NI
+        val l: T = <!TYPE_MISMATCH!>x.<!TYPE_MISMATCH!>myLastInv()<!><!> // required T, found Cap(*). Only in NI
     }
 }
 
@@ -36,7 +36,7 @@ fun Number.num() {}
 fun main(b: Base<out Number>) {
     b.foo().num()
     if (b is Derived<*>) {
-        b.foo().num()
+        b.foo().<!DEBUG_INFO_UNRESOLVED_WITH_TARGET, UNRESOLVED_REFERENCE_WRONG_RECEIVER!>num<!>()
         b.baz().length
     }
 }