FIR: pass the qualified access source when reporting ErrorNamedReference

Currently if there is an error in a function call, FIR would report the
entire expression if this call is qualified, but *only* the name if it's
not qualified. For example, assume the following two calls are all
contains some errors.

```
a.foo(1,2,3)
^^^^^^^^^^^^
bar(1,2,3)
^^^
```

The entire call of `foo` is reported since it's qualified. But only the
reference `bar` is reported since it's not qualified. This limits the
usage of position strategies because the IDE does not allow position
strategies to go outside of the initially reported PSI element
(org.jetbrains.kotlin.idea.fir.highlighter.KotlinHighLevelDiagnosticHighlightingPass#addDiagnostic).

This change passes both the original error named reference and the
surrounding qualified access expression and defer the decision of which
to use to the reporting logic.

For unresolved reference and checks on `super` keyword, the position
strategy should not highlight the surrounding parentheses. Hence a new
position strategy `REFERENCED_NAME_BY_QUALIFIED` is added.

In addition, this change also has the following side effect

* some diagnostics are no longer reported when there is a syntax error
  since the higher level structure does not exist when there is a syntax
  error

compiler/testData/diagnostics/tests/incompleteCode/diagnosticWithSyntaxError/noTypeParamsInReturnType.fir.kt

@@ -8,4 +8,3 @@ fun <F, G> getMap() : Map<F, G> = throw Exception()
 fun bar123() {
     foo(<!INAPPLICABLE_CANDIDATE!>getMap<!>(
 <!SYNTAX!><!>}
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