Remove usages of com.intellij.* utils from kotlin-build-common, KT-31106

As Gradle may under certain conditions reorder the buildscript
classpath artifacts, we need to ensure that the `kotlin-build-common`
module, which duplicates some of the classes that are shaded and packed
into `kotlin-compiler-embeddable`, does not call `com.intellij.*`
classes.

Replace the `com.intellij.*` utils that were called on the execution
path with our own implementations.

Issue #KT-31106 Fixed

libraries/tools/kotlin-gradle-plugin-integration-tests/src/test/kotlin/org/jetbrains/kotlin/gradle/KotlinGradlePluginIT.kt

@@ -963,4 +963,36 @@ class KotlinGradleIT : BaseGradleIT() {
                 assertContains("Required com.example.compilation 'bar'")
             }
         }
+
+    @Test
+    fun testLoadCompilerEmbeddableAfterOtherKotlinArtifacts() = with(Project("simpleProject")) {
+        setupWorkingDir()
+        val buildscriptClasspathPrefix = "buildscript-classpath = "
+        gradleBuildScript().appendText(
+            "\n" + """
+                println "$buildscriptClasspathPrefix" + Arrays.toString(buildscript.classLoader.getURLs())
+            """.trimIndent()
+        )
+
+        // get the classpath, then reorder it so that kotlin-compiler-embeddable is loaded after all other JARs
+        lateinit var classpath: List<String>
+
+        build {
+            val classpathLine = output.lines().single { buildscriptClasspathPrefix in it }
+            classpath = classpathLine.substringAfter(buildscriptClasspathPrefix).removeSurrounding("[", "]").split(", ")
+        }
+
+        gradleBuildScript().modify {
+            val reorderedClasspath = run {
+                val (kotlinCompilerEmbeddable, others) = classpath.partition { "kotlin-compiler-embeddable" in it }
+                others + kotlinCompilerEmbeddable
+            }
+            val newClasspathString = "classpath files(\n" + reorderedClasspath.joinToString(",\n") { "'$it'" } + "\n)"
+            it.checkedReplace("classpath \"org.jetbrains.kotlin:kotlin-gradle-plugin:${'$'}kotlin_version\"", newClasspathString)
+        }
+
+        build("compileKotlin") {
+            assertSuccessful()
+        }
+    }
 }