CLI: improve behavior of -include-runtime

1.fix KT-17344: Include kotlin-reflect to resulting jar if "-include-runtime" is specified, unless the -no-reflect option is specified.
2.fix KT-43220: -include-runtime should add .kotlin_builtins to the output

compiler/config.jvm/src/org/jetbrains/kotlin/config/JVMConfigurationKeys.java

@@ -146,4 +146,7 @@ public class JVMConfigurationKeys {
 
     public static final CompilerConfigurationKey<Boolean> ENABLE_JVM_PREVIEW =
             CompilerConfigurationKey.create("Enable Java language preview features");
+
+    public static final CompilerConfigurationKey<Boolean> NO_REFLECT =
+            CompilerConfigurationKey.create("Don't automatically include kotlin-reflect.jar into the output if the output is a jar");
 }