[FIR] Remove incompatible from expect actual matching if compatible exists

This fixes an issue with checking for default values in call resolution
(see FirDefaultParametersResolver) where it is expected that the map
only contains a single compatible entry.

#KT-59613 Fixed

compiler/testData/codegen/box/multiplatform/kt59613.kt

@@ -0,0 +1,19 @@
+// LANGUAGE: +MultiPlatformProjects
+// IGNORE_BACKEND_K1: ANY
+// IGNORE_REASON: multimodule MPP tests are not supported in K1
+// ISSUE: KT-59613
+
+// MODULE: common
+// FILE: common.kt
+expect fun printJson(pretty: Boolean = false)
+expect fun printJson(replacer: () -> Any?)
+
+// MODULE: platform()()(common)
+// FILE: platform.kt
+actual fun printJson(replacer: () -> Any?) {}
+actual fun printJson(pretty: Boolean) {}
+
+fun box(): String {
+    printJson()
+    return "OK"
+}