[Build] Migrate most of the build logic from Project.buildDir usage

It's going to be deprecated in Gradle 8.3

There's currently no way to pass a `org.gradle.api.provider.Provider` to the JavaExec.systemProperty or Test.systemProperty. There's a workaround using `org.gradle.process.CommandLineArgumentProvider`, but I intentionally don't rework these calls as Gradle is going to allow passing providers to configure system properties: https://github.com/gradle/gradle/issues/12247#issuecomment-1568427242
^KTI-1473 In Progress

wasm/wasm.ir/build.gradle.kts

@@ -26,10 +26,10 @@ repositories {
     }
 }
 
-val wabtDir = File(buildDir, "wabt")
+val wabtDir = File(layout.buildDirectory.get().asFile, "wabt")
 val wabtVersion = "1.0.19"
 val testSuiteRevision = "18f8340"
-val testSuiteDir = File(buildDir, "testsuite")
+val testSuiteDir = File(layout.buildDirectory.get().asFile, "testsuite")
 
 val gradleOs = org.gradle.internal.os.OperatingSystem.current()
 val wabtOS = when {

wasm/wasm.tests/build.gradle.kts

@@ -113,15 +113,12 @@ fun Test.setupGradlePropertiesForwarding() {
     }
 }
 
-val downloadedTools = File(buildDir, "tools")
-
 val unzipJsShell by task<Copy> {
     dependsOn(jsShell)
     from {
         zipTree(jsShell.singleFile)
     }
-    val unpackedDir = File(downloadedTools, "jsshell-$jsShellSuffix-$jsShellVersion")
-    into(unpackedDir)
+    into(layout.buildDirectory.dir("tools/jsshell-$jsShellSuffix-$jsShellVersion"))
 }
 
 fun Test.setupSpiderMonkey() {
@@ -153,7 +150,7 @@ fun Project.wasmProjectTest(
         setupWasmStdlib("js")
         setupWasmStdlib("wasi")
         setupGradlePropertiesForwarding()
-        systemProperty("kotlin.wasm.test.root.out.dir", "$buildDir/")
+        systemProperty("kotlin.wasm.test.root.out.dir", "${layout.buildDirectory.get().asFile}/")
         body()
     }
 }