[Build] Migrate most of the build logic from Project.buildDir usage

It's going to be deprecated in Gradle 8.3

There's currently no way to pass a `org.gradle.api.provider.Provider` to the JavaExec.systemProperty or Test.systemProperty. There's a workaround using `org.gradle.process.CommandLineArgumentProvider`, but I intentionally don't rework these calls as Gradle is going to allow passing providers to configure system properties: https://github.com/gradle/gradle/issues/12247#issuecomment-1568427242
^KTI-1473 In Progress

benchmarks/build.gradle.kts

@@ -73,7 +73,7 @@ tasks.withType<Zip>().matching { it.name == "mainBenchmarkJar" }.configureEach {
 val benchmarkTasks = listOf("mainBenchmark", "mainFirBenchmark", "mainNiBenchmark")
 tasks.withType<JavaExec>().matching { it.name in benchmarkTasks }.configureEach {
     dependsOn(":createIdeaHomeForTests")
-    systemProperty("idea.home.path", ideaHomePathForTests().canonicalPath)
+    systemProperty("idea.home.path", ideaHomePathForTests().get().asFile.canonicalPath)
     systemProperty("idea.use.native.fs.for.win", false)
 }
 
@@ -81,17 +81,26 @@ tasks.register<JavaExec>("runBenchmark") {
     dependsOn(":createIdeaHomeForTests")
 
     // jmhArgs example: -PjmhArgs='CommonCalls -p size=500 -p isIR=true -p useNI=true -f 1'
-    val jmhArgs = if (project.hasProperty("jmhArgs")) project.property("jmhArgs").toString() else ""
-    val resultFilePath = "$buildDir/benchmarks/jmh-result.json"
-    val ideaHome = ideaHomePathForTests().canonicalPath
+    val jmhArgs = project.providers.gradleProperty("jvmArgs")
+    val resultFilePath = project.layout.buildDirectory.file("benchmarks/jmh-result.json")
+    val ideaHome = ideaHomePathForTests()
 
-    val benchmarkJarPath = "$buildDir/benchmarks/main/jars/benchmarks.jar"
-    args = mutableListOf("-Didea.home.path=$ideaHome", benchmarkJarPath, "-rf", "json", "-rff", resultFilePath) + jmhArgs.split("\\s".toRegex())
+    val benchmarkJarPath = project.layout.buildDirectory.file("benchmarks/main/jars/benchmarks.jar")
+    argumentProviders.add {
+        listOf(
+            "-Didea.home.path=${ideaHome.get().asFile.canonicalPath}",
+            benchmarkJarPath.get().asFile.toString(),
+            "-rf",
+            "json",
+            "-rff",
+            resultFilePath.get().asFile.toString(),
+        ) + jmhArgs.map { it.split("\\s".toRegex()) }.orElse(emptyList()).get()
+    }
     mainClass.set("-jar")
 
     doLast {
         if (project.kotlinBuildProperties.isTeamcityBuild) {
-            val jsonArray = com.google.gson.JsonParser.parseString(File(resultFilePath).readText()).asJsonArray
+            val jsonArray = com.google.gson.JsonParser.parseString(resultFilePath.get().asFile.readText()).asJsonArray
             jsonArray.forEach {
                 val benchmark = it.asJsonObject
                 // remove unnecessary name parts from string like this "org.jetbrains.kotlin.benchmarks.CommonCallsBenchmark.benchmark"