[CLI] Rename -XdependsOn flag to -Xdepends-on to keep convention

^KT-56209

compiler/testData/cli/js/jsExtraHelp.out

@@ -63,7 +63,7 @@ where advanced options include:
   -Xcommon-sources=<path>    Sources of the common module that need to be compiled together with this module in the multi-platform mode.
                              Should be a subset of sources passed as free arguments
   -Xcontext-receivers        Enable experimental context receivers
-  -XdependsOn=<fromModuleName>:<onModuleName>
+  -Xdepends-on=<fromModuleName>:<onModuleName>
                              Declares that <fromModuleName> depends on <onModuleName> with dependsOn relation
   -Xdisable-default-scripting-plugin
                              Do not enable scripting plugin by default

compiler/testData/cli/js/successfulHmpp.args

@@ -11,5 +11,5 @@ fir-hmpp
 -Xmodule=a;$TESTDATA_DIR$/../jvm/hmpp/src/a.kt
 -Xmodule=b;$TESTDATA_DIR$/../jvm/hmpp/src/b.kt
 -Xmodule=c;$TESTDATA_DIR$/../jvm/hmpp/src/c.kt
--XdependsOn=b\:a
--XdependsOn=c\:b
+-Xdepends-on=b\:a
+-Xdepends-on=c\:b