Refactoring: Improve createExpectActualTypeParameterSubstitutor API

Review: https://jetbrains.team/p/kt/reviews/12279/files

Motivation: make sure that cases like KT-62027 won't happen again
Review: https://jetbrains.team/p/kt/reviews/12279/files

Now it's responsibility of the
`createExpectActualTypeParameterSubstitutor` calller to think about the
case when parameters size isn't equal. You must not be able to create a
substitutor if type parameters sizes are not equal

Improvement in `createExpectActualTypeParameterSubstitutor` API also
improves
`AbstractExpectActualCompatibilityChecker.getCallablesCompatibility`
API.

Because suppose that you accidentally created a redundant wrapping
substitutor => you need to handle the case of not equal type parameters
size on the call site => you start thinking why you should do that on
the call site? It must be a responsibility of
`getCallablesCompatibility` => you realize that you created a redundant
wrapping substitutor

core/util.runtime/src/org/jetbrains/kotlin/utils/collections.kt

@@ -22,6 +22,9 @@ fun <K, V> Iterable<K>.keysToMap(value: (K) -> V): Map<K, V> {
     return associateBy({ it }, value)
 }
 
+infix fun <A, B> Collection<A>.zipIfSizesAreEqual(other: Collection<B>): List<Pair<A, B>>? =
+    if (size == other.size) zip(other) else null
+
 fun <K, V : Any> Iterable<K>.keysToMapExceptNulls(value: (K) -> V?): Map<K, V> {
     val map = LinkedHashMap<K, V>()
     for (k in this) {