[Daemon] Improve daemon connection algorithm

Before this change, the logic was to find the most suitable daemon and try connecting to it in a loop, ignoring the fact that it could be dying. Now, instead of trying to connect to the daemon dying daemon in a loop, we will make only 1 attemp and then skip if it's already dying.
^KT-55322 In Progress

compiler/daemon/daemon-common/src/org/jetbrains/kotlin/daemon/common/CompileService.kt

@@ -39,7 +39,7 @@ interface CompileService : Remote {
     }
 
     companion object {
-        val NO_SESSION: Int = 0
+        const val NO_SESSION: Int = 0
     }
 
     sealed class CallResult<out R> : Serializable {