[Daemon] Improve daemon connection algorithm

Before this change, the logic was to find the most suitable daemon and try connecting to it in a loop, ignoring the fact that it could be dying. Now, instead of trying to connect to the daemon dying daemon in a loop, we will make only 1 attemp and then skip if it's already dying.
^KT-55322 In Progress

compiler/daemon/daemon-client/build.gradle.kts

@@ -1,6 +1,3 @@
-import org.jetbrains.kotlin.gradle.dsl.KotlinVersion
-import org.jetbrains.kotlin.gradle.tasks.KotlinCompilationTask
-
 description = "Kotlin Daemon Client"
 
 plugins {
@@ -32,16 +29,7 @@ dependencies {
     }
 }
 
-tasks.withType<KotlinCompilationTask<*>> {
-    compilerOptions {
-        // This module is being run from within Gradle, older versions of which only have older kotlin-stdlib in the runtime classpath.
-        @Suppress("DEPRECATION")
-        apiVersion.set(KotlinVersion.KOTLIN_1_4)
-        @Suppress("DEPRECATION")
-        languageVersion.set(KotlinVersion.KOTLIN_1_4)
-        freeCompilerArgs.add("-Xsuppress-version-warnings")
-    }
-}
+configureKotlinCompileTasksGradleCompatibility()
 
 sourceSets {
     "main" { projectDefault() }