Introduce a compiler X-flag to use the builder inference by default for all calls

^KT-48622 Fixed

compiler/testData/cli/js/jsExtraHelp.out

@@ -52,6 +52,8 @@ where advanced options include:
   -Xdump-fqname              FqName of declaration that should be dumped
   -Xdump-perf=<path>         Dump detailed performance statistics to the specified file
   -Xeffect-system            Enable experimental language feature: effect system
+  -Xenable-builder-inference Use the builder inference by default, for all calls with lambdas which can't be resolved without it.
+                             The corresponding calls' declarations may not be marked with @BuilderInference.
   -Xexpect-actual-linker     Enable experimental expect/actual linker
   -Xexplicit-api={strict|warning|disable}
                              Force compiler to report errors on all public API declarations without explicit visibility or return type.

compiler/testData/cli/jvm/builderInferenceByDefault.args

@@ -0,0 +1,4 @@
+$TESTDATA_DIR$/builderInferenceByDefault.kt
+-d
+$TEMP_DIR$
+-Xenable-builder-inference

compiler/testData/cli/jvm/builderInferenceByDefault.kt

@@ -0,0 +1,8 @@
+fun <K, V> buildMap(builderAction: MutableMap<K, V>.() -> Unit): Map<K, V> = mapOf()
+
+fun box(): String {
+    val x = buildMap {
+        put("", "")
+    }
+    return "OK"
+}

compiler/testData/cli/jvm/builderInferenceByDefault.out

@@ -0,0 +1,7 @@
+compiler/testData/cli/jvm/builderInferenceByDefault.kt:1:21: warning: parameter 'builderAction' is never used
+fun <K, V> buildMap(builderAction: MutableMap<K, V>.() -> Unit): Map<K, V> = mapOf()
+                    ^
+compiler/testData/cli/jvm/builderInferenceByDefault.kt:4:9: warning: variable 'x' is never used
+    val x = buildMap {
+        ^
+OK

compiler/testData/cli/jvm/extraHelp.out

@@ -154,6 +154,8 @@ where advanced options include:
   -Xdump-fqname              FqName of declaration that should be dumped
   -Xdump-perf=<path>         Dump detailed performance statistics to the specified file
   -Xeffect-system            Enable experimental language feature: effect system
+  -Xenable-builder-inference Use the builder inference by default, for all calls with lambdas which can't be resolved without it.
+                             The corresponding calls' declarations may not be marked with @BuilderInference.
   -Xexpect-actual-linker     Enable experimental expect/actual linker
   -Xexplicit-api={strict|warning|disable}
                              Force compiler to report errors on all public API declarations without explicit visibility or return type.