Fix KotlinNativeABICompatibilityChecker.getLibrariesToNotifyAbout freeze

Get rid of O(n^2) in copyProperties
make ModuleProductionSourceInfo.stableName lazy
add checkCanceled in loops in IdeaModelInfosCache

#KT-38318 Fixed

compiler/cli/cli-common/src/org/jetbrains/kotlin/cli/common/arguments/argumentUtils.kt

@@ -55,9 +55,11 @@ private fun <From : Any, To : Any> copyProperties(
 ): To {
     if (from == to) return to
 
+    val toMemberProperties = to::class.memberProperties.associateBy { it.name }
+
     for (fromProperty in propertiesToCopy) {
         @Suppress("UNCHECKED_CAST")
-        val toProperty = to::class.memberProperties.firstOrNull { it.name == fromProperty.name } as? KMutableProperty1<To, Any?>
+        val toProperty = toMemberProperties[fromProperty.name] as? KMutableProperty1<To, Any?>
             ?: continue
         val fromValue = fromProperty.get(from)
         if (filter != null && !filter(fromProperty, fromValue)) continue