Align ListBuilder with native ArrayList

Furthermore, add test for ListBuilder.subList detection of concurrent
modification, and fix error in ListBuilder and ArrayList.

Fix KT-62346

libraries/stdlib/test/collections/ConcurrentModificationTest.kt

@@ -252,6 +252,12 @@ class ConcurrentModificationTest {
                 action(subList)
             }
         }
+        assertFailsWith<ConcurrentModificationException> {
+            buildList<String> {
+                addAll(listOf("a", "b", "c"))
+                for (e in subList(1, 3)) remove(e)
+            }
+        }
     }
 
     @Test