Force recompile all call-sites of ExpectedActualResolver.{findActualForExpected, findExpectedForActual}

This is needed to workaround broken incremental compilation in JPS in
Kotlin plugin. The incremental compilation bug is reported KT-60759

In Kotlin plugin I created the same commit which changes the name of the
function on the call-site.

Review: https://jetbrains.team/p/kt/reviews/11039/timeline

After a few days in master branch, I will revert this commit

compiler/frontend/src/org/jetbrains/kotlin/resolve/checkers/ExpectedActualDeclarationChecker.kt

@@ -270,7 +270,7 @@ class ExpectedActualDeclarationChecker(
         compatibility: Map<ExpectActualCompatibility<MemberDescriptor>, List<MemberDescriptor>>
     ): Boolean {
         return compatibility.values.flatMapTo(hashSetOf()) { it }.all { actual ->
-            val expectedOnes = ExpectedActualResolver.findExpectedForActual(actual, onlyFromThisModule(module))
+            val expectedOnes = ExpectedActualResolver.findExpectedForActual_incrementalCompilationWorkaround(actual, onlyFromThisModule(module))
             expectedOnes != null && Compatible in expectedOnes.keys
         }
     }
@@ -298,7 +298,7 @@ class ExpectedActualDeclarationChecker(
         moduleVisibilityFilter: ModuleFilter
     ) {
         val compatibility = ExpectedActualResolver
-            .findExpectedForActual(descriptor, moduleVisibilityFilter, shouldCheckAbsenceOfDefaultParamsInActual = true)
+            .findExpectedForActual_incrementalCompilationWorkaround(descriptor, moduleVisibilityFilter, shouldCheckAbsenceOfDefaultParamsInActual = true)
             ?: return
 
         checkAmbiguousExpects(compatibility, trace, reportOn, descriptor)
@@ -337,7 +337,7 @@ class ExpectedActualDeclarationChecker(
                 return actualMember != null &&
                         actualMember.isExplicitActualDeclaration() &&
                         !incompatibility.allStrongIncompatibilities() &&
-                        ExpectedActualResolver.findExpectedForActual(
+                        ExpectedActualResolver.findExpectedForActual_incrementalCompilationWorkaround(
                             actualMember, onlyFromThisModule(expectedMember.module)
                         )?.values?.singleOrNull()?.singleOrNull() == expectedMember
             }