[NI] Resolve lambda against input types from expected type

This is needed to report more precise diagnostics and fix IDE-tests

 #KT-31059 Fixed

compiler/testData/diagnostics/tests/functionLiterals/destructuringInLambdas/simple.kt

@@ -47,7 +47,7 @@ fun bar() {
         b checkType { _<String>() }
     }
 
-    foo <!NI;TYPE_MISMATCH!>{ <!OI;EXPECTED_PARAMETER_TYPE_MISMATCH!>(a, b): B<!> ->
+    foo <!NI;TYPE_MISMATCH!>{ <!EXPECTED_PARAMETER_TYPE_MISMATCH!>(a, b): B<!> ->
         a checkType { _<Double>() }
         b checkType { _<Short>() }
     }<!>

compiler/testData/diagnostics/tests/functionLiterals/destructuringInLambdas/underscore.kt

@@ -56,7 +56,7 @@ fun bar() {
         b checkType { _<String>() }
     }
 
-    foo <!NI;TYPE_MISMATCH!>{ <!OI;EXPECTED_PARAMETER_TYPE_MISMATCH!>(_, b): B<!> ->
+    foo <!NI;TYPE_MISMATCH!>{ <!EXPECTED_PARAMETER_TYPE_MISMATCH!>(_, b): B<!> ->
         <!UNRESOLVED_REFERENCE!>_<!>.<!DEBUG_INFO_ELEMENT_WITH_ERROR_TYPE!>hashCode<!>()
         b checkType { _<Short>() }
     }<!>