[FIR] Forbid erroneous ===-checks

It was decided to forbid such comparisons,
as we know how `===` works. Also, added some more
test cases, just for comparison.

Reusing the proper `canHaveSubtypes()`
from `TypeUtils` prevents a breaking change
in:

- `comparingTripleWithPair.kt`
- `comparisonOfGenericInterfaceWithGenericClass.kt`

But it does lead to warnings
(instead of errors) in
`incompatibleEnumEntryClasses.kt`, which is an
unrelated mistake that will be fixed in the next
commit.

The refactoring in `canHaveSubtypes()` is purely
cosmetic - otherwise reading these conditions is hard
(and they don't fit my screen vertically).

^KT-62646
^KT-65541
^KT-57779

compiler/testData/diagnostics/tests/comparingArbitraryClasses.fir.kt

@@ -5,5 +5,5 @@ class A
 class B
 fun main() {
     A() == B()
-    A() === B()
+    <!EQUALITY_NOT_APPLICABLE!>A() === B()<!>
 }