CLI, Ant: add kotlin-reflect.jar to classpath by default, support "-no-reflect"

Note that now "-no-stdlib" implies "-no-reflect".

 #KT-13237 Fixed

jps-plugin/src/org/jetbrains/kotlin/compilerRunner/KotlinCompilerRunner.kt

@@ -289,6 +289,7 @@ object KotlinCompilerRunner {
         with(settings) {
             module = moduleFile.absolutePath
             noStdlib = true
+            noReflect = true
             noJdk = true
         }
     }