JPS: fix testJpsDaemonIC

1. Checking for COMPILE_DAEMON_CUSTOM_RUN_FILES_PATH_FOR_TESTS was moved to COMPILE_DAEMON_DEFAULT_RUN_DIR_PATH.

Looks like COMPILE_DAEMON_CUSTOM_RUN_FILES_PATH_FOR_TESTS was introduced incorrectly in 220fab0d3f.
Checking of this property was added in DaemonOptions.runFilesPathOrDefault, while DaemonOptions.runFilesPath was internally used in runFilesPathOrDefault and in many other places.
For example DaemonOptions.runFilesPath used to pass this option to daemon server.
So daemon was started with runFilesPath that ignores COMPILE_DAEMON_CUSTOM_RUN_FILES_PATH_FOR_TESTS.

2. JpsKotlinCompilerRunner._jpsCompileServiceSession was leaked between tests.

Fixed by extracting @TestOnly releaseCompileServiceSession() and calling it in tests tearDown()

3. The result of compileWithDaemon was ignored in compileWithDaemonOrFallback.

So, the fallback was never called, and the FAIL_ON_FALLBACK_PROPERTY was actually was never worked.
This was fixed. Also the message was improved to make it easier to find the original fail cause.

compiler/daemon/daemon-common/src/org/jetbrains/kotlin/daemon/common/DaemonParams.kt

@@ -52,7 +52,8 @@ val COMPILE_DAEMON_IS_READY_MESSAGE = "Kotlin compile daemon is ready"
 
 val COMPILE_DAEMON_CUSTOM_RUN_FILES_PATH_FOR_TESTS: String = "kotlin.daemon.custom.run.files.path.for.tests"
 val COMPILE_DAEMON_DEFAULT_RUN_DIR_PATH: String get() =
-    FileSystem.getRuntimeStateFilesPath("kotlin", "daemon")
+    System.getProperty(COMPILE_DAEMON_CUSTOM_RUN_FILES_PATH_FOR_TESTS)
+        ?: FileSystem.getRuntimeStateFilesPath("kotlin", "daemon")
 
 val CLASSPATH_ID_DIGEST = "MD5"
 
@@ -226,9 +227,7 @@ data class DaemonOptions(
 
 // TODO: consider implementing generic approach to it or may be replace getters with ones returning default if necessary
 val DaemonOptions.runFilesPathOrDefault: String
-    get() = System.getProperty(COMPILE_DAEMON_CUSTOM_RUN_FILES_PATH_FOR_TESTS)
-            ?: runFilesPath.takeUnless { it.isBlank() }
-            ?: COMPILE_DAEMON_DEFAULT_RUN_DIR_PATH
+    get() = if (runFilesPath.isBlank()) COMPILE_DAEMON_DEFAULT_RUN_DIR_PATH else runFilesPath
 
 fun Iterable<String>.distinctStringsDigest(): ByteArray =
         MessageDigest.getInstance(CLASSPATH_ID_DIGEST)