[Gradle] CInterop commonization: Improve grouping and dependency management

^KT-47775 Verification Pending
This implementation will be lenient toward the common
*Test.dependsOn(*Main) mistake.

^KT-47053 Verification Pending
Support source sets that do not have a dedicated
shared native compilation. Also support additional visible source sets
coming from associate compilations.

native/commonizer-api/src/org/jetbrains/kotlin/commonizer/util/transitiveClosure.kt

@@ -18,7 +18,7 @@ public inline fun <reified T> transitiveClosure(seed: T, edges: T.() -> Iterable
     val initialEdges = seed.edges()
     if (initialEdges is Collection && initialEdges.isEmpty()) return emptySet()
 
-    val queue = deque<T>()
+    val queue = deque<T>(initialEdges.count() * 2)
     val results = mutableSetOf<T>()
     queue.addAll(initialEdges)
     while (queue.isNotEmpty()) {
@@ -34,7 +34,7 @@ public inline fun <reified T> transitiveClosure(seed: T, edges: T.() -> Iterable
 
 @OptIn(ExperimentalStdlibApi::class)
 @PublishedApi
-internal inline fun <reified T> deque(): MutableList<T> {
-    return if (KotlinVersion.CURRENT.isAtLeast(1, 4)) ArrayDeque()
-    else mutableListOf()
+internal inline fun <reified T> deque(initialSize: Int): MutableList<T> {
+    return if (KotlinVersion.CURRENT.isAtLeast(1, 4)) ArrayDeque(initialSize)
+    else ArrayList(initialSize)
 }